Communication w/kids and a bit of Grace

Standard

This is something I read from a pastor/teacher/golfer/friend:

Communication With Children

1. Be a ready listener and do not answer until your child has finished talking

2. Be slow to speak. Think first. Don’t be hasty in your words.

Speak in such a way that your child can understand and accept what you say.

3. Speak the truth always, but do it in love. Do not exaggerate to make your point.

4. Do not use silence to frustrate your child. Explain why you are hesitant to talk at this time.

5. Do not quarrel. It is possible to disagree without quarreling.

6. Do not respond in anger. Use a soft and kind response.

7. When you are in the wrong, admit it and ask your child for forgiveness. When they confess to you, tell them you forgive them. Be sure it is also forgotten and not brought up again.

8. Avoid nagging.

9. Do not blame or criticize your child, but encourage them and build them up. If they verbally attack, criticize or blame you, do not respond in the same manner.

10. Try to understand your child’s opinion. Make allowances for differences. Be concerned about their interests.

I wrote a story to my son abut 4 years ago. He had left for school without doing his chores and we parted angry. When he came home his chores were done and this note in his room.

I put this as a separate page because I didn’t want to bore people with my story unless they really wanted  to see it!

Please see above by the picture of the cats, by the blog and about me pages, click on grace story. It will only be there for a limited time!

Pr 22:6Train up a child in the way he should go, Even when he is old he will not depart from it.
Pr 22:15 – Foolishness is bound up in the heart of a child; The rod of discipline will remove it far from him.
Pr 23:13 – Do not hold back discipline from the child, Although you strike him with the rod, he will not die.
Pr 29:15 – The rod and reproof give wisdom, But a child who gets his own way brings shame to his mother.
Ps 34:11 – Come, you children, listen to me; I will teach you the fear of the LORD.
Ps 36:7 – How precious is Your lovingkindness, O God! And the children of men take refuge in the shadow of Your wings.
Ps 72:4 – May he vindicate the afflicted of the people, Save the children of the needy And crush the oppressor.

Blessings!

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About Kristina

51 year old Christian lady, knitter, bible collector, crafter, little business owner, thrill seeker (only when shopping at thrift stores for tremendous bargains) my animals servant, a child of God, saved, redeemed and trying to be joyful in a fallen world.

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